I perceived her concern by saying that I would definitely wear a mask.
I decided not to attend any more private conversations at work, and now it seems like a problem for her.
I didn’t intend on it I just chose not to join her in private conversations.
What I do is out of work, not for anyone else. I am a very safe and hygienic traveler and have never been sick since the outbreak.
This co-worker smokes and drinks too much on her holiday. But I never judged her or spoke to her about her habit of getting cancer.
Do you have a word of wisdom for those of us still working in the office about managing a wide range of personal attitudes and responsibilities during this time?
Don̵7;t judge me: If you don’t want to be severely judged, don’t respond and judge for yourself.
Your co-worker’s smoking and drinking behavior when she’s at home doesn’t affect your health – and you know it.
Your journey can affect her and everyone else, and you know it too.
My advice to people sharing office space is to follow local, state, and company guidelines.
My advice to those who struggle with treating others at risk, anxiety, anxiety, or totally neuroticism about COVID addiction – is that people who are physically and mentally healthy should adjust their behavior to Riskiest level
It’s not fun and sometimes (As in your case) you may feel controlled, disrespectful, or hurt.
Your coworker’s mask request makes sense. Your defensive response is as ridiculous as her! Finally common ground
Dear Amy: My husband and I have gone through a lot of things over the years. Despite having a 1-year-old child, we have been talking about divorce more than once. But we are still there.
Regardless, at the end of the day every wife wants to hear her husband say “Honey, if I had to marry you again, I would.” But I know he really doesn’t feel like this. And because of this, I don’t feel safe. Should I be worried?
confused: If you had to do it all over again, would you mind marrying your husband? Some days yes, some days not.
The first few years of family life with a baby can be very stressful. I think you should decide to keep your question aside.
I can’t tell you whether or not to worry about your marriage future. But I can say with confidence that “hanging out there” is something to celebrate.
Dear Amy: I want your readers to have a different perspective on what the holiday season is like.
I am married to a police officer. We have no children. Over the years, I have been alone on Christmas Day or attend a family event by myself because he works or sleeps to prepare for shifts.
And you know what? It’s okay! I plan to watch a movie, light a candle, and buy my favorite food to indulge.
Several years ago, my mom was in the hospital on Christmas Day and there were doctors, nurses and support staff there.
Firefighters, hotel workers and road crews didn’t celebrate with their families either.
For us this is not “New normal”, but this is normal.
Hopefully next year will be fine for those of you to go through. But keep in mind that next year, your normal isn’t the truth of everyone.
Normal, different: Thank you! You have presented your critical perspective at the right time. We shouldn’t forget the lessons we learned this year. My thanks go out – exit, exit – for everyone who works so hard to make the rest of us a “normal person”.
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